Today was our Mother's Day Brunch/Invite-Your-Mom meeting. We had a wonderful morning together reflecting on the awesome privilege and responsibility of motherhood! It was nice to have so many of our moms/mother-in laws join us this morning as well. In addition to some extra door prizes and special gifts for our guests, we also had a craft sale (to clear out some of the old craft supplies in our cabinets) and mixed up some homemade body scrubs using Epsom salts, olive oil, and essential oils (which were then poured into decorated baby food jars).
The topic of our talk this morning was "Let Me Hold You Longer" and our speaker used some excerpts from that book mixed with personal stories and photos to inspire and encourage us all. She started by reminding us that motherhood is a priceless gift as well as an unrelenting responsibility. At times we may get too caught up in the 3 D's of mothering: Dishes, Diapers, and Dust. We need to remember that this season of our lives will go by too quickly and before we know it the kids will be grown.
In the moments when we are stressed out, exhausted, and frustrated, we need to rest in God and cast our cares upon Him. We should be alert to the many lessons that our children can teach us.
Also, we should try not to lose sight of what is real and what is important:
1) Everyday celebrate at least 1 thing; don't just wait for big events. Celebrate the wonder of your family.....have a special meal, sing a silly song, dance around the house, etc.
2) Maintain Perspective: in the quiet moments of the day (like when the kids are asleep), we are reminded of our priorities and purpose as a mom. Our job, leading our kids to God, is an eternal one!
3) Remember and capture the moments - take LOTS of pictures, keep a journal
4) Pray: Here is a wonderful prayer that our speaker shared with us today...
Lord, give me the patience when wee hands
Tug at me with their small demands
Give me gentle and smiling eyes;
Keep my lips from hasty replies.
Let not weariness, confusion, or noise
Obscure my vision of life's fleeting joys.
So, when in years to come, my house is still
No bitter memories its rooms may fill.
Mothering is a journey; every "last" is leading to another "first". As our kids grow, and eventually move on to other things, parenting DOESN'T STOP...it just looks different.
On those days, when you are overwhelmed with your responsibilities as a mother, keep this verse in mind:
Isaiah 41:13
For I hold you by your right hand—
I, the Lord your God.
And I say to you,
‘Don’t be afraid. I am here to help you.
This blog is dedicated to the Moms of Influence group at Northbrook Church in Richfield, WI.
